The Psychology Of Why Valentine’s Day Ruins Relationships

Valentine's Day PsychologyValentine’s Day typically serves as a time to show appreciation for that special someone in our lives or as an opportunity to take a relationship to the next level. It’s a time to celebrate love in all of its forms, but can Valentine’s Day be a dangerous time for the health of your relationship?

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Alternatively, rather than instigate problems in relationships, Valentine’s Day could exacerbate existing issues (known as the “catalyst hypothesis”). Basically, Valentine’s Day may be a time when all those problems that you and/or your partner might have swept under the relational rug resurface and wreak their havoc. Struggling relationships may falter under the extra pressure of the holiday. Maybe you’ve been a lousy partner all year and your poor efforts on Valentine’s Day are just the last straw. Relationships with big problems were probably headed for a breakup anyway, and Valentine’s Day just provided the extra push to get them there sooner.

Original Source – Business Insider


One thought on “The Psychology Of Why Valentine’s Day Ruins Relationships

  1. I don’t celebrate valentines day, I think if you love someone you should celebrate it all year round not wait once a year for a ridiculous overpriced meal and impersonal tacky gifts. Small (and free) acts of affection work best at all times 🙂

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